The qoute sounds familar? The meaning and the learning behind it is absolutely priceless.
Let me share with you the scenario which always happen in our daily life;
- We wish for something, tapi kita tak dapat. We become frustrated with everything.
- Our friend dapat apa yang kita nak and we thought that we deserved that. Kita jadi marah.
- Something bad happen, kita said ‘Why me? Why not him?’
- ...... ‘Beruntungnya dia... She got everything!’
- I got it.... Suddenly it was canceled. Jadi marah and frustrated.
These 5 simple scenarios that I’ve shared above are just normal scenarios that happen to ourself in daily basis. Kadang-kadang sama ada sedar atau tidak, kita membelakangkan dan menidakan ketentuan our creator, Allah.
I personally experienced and also used to have those feelings and until up to one point. I naturally realized, my behaviour was totally wrong. Take a step back, and back to to our very basic principle.
- 99 Asma Ul Husna, NONE of it is negative names. They are all beautiful names.
- HE knows the best for us.
- HIS plan is always perfect for us.
..... and again, everything happen for a reason (that’s one) and it all about time where Allah have greates plan for us and trust me his plan is always the best plan you ever thought.
Sometimes, it’s really amazing bila kita realize Allah beri segalanya when the EXACT time that we really need it. Even more surprised, sometimes it comes from the channel that we never expected. It’s simple amazing and sometimes unbelievable.
Never in life have bad perception to HIM, blaming HIM, menidakan ketentuan Allah dan tidak percaya Allah have BEST plan (not only better) for us!
How to let go the ‘negative feeling?’
Do our very best in every opportunity that comes to us, the rest betul-betul bulatkan hati dan serah kepada Allah especially when we are at the juncture.
“Ya Allah, aku telah buat yang terbaik dan aku serah kan kepada Mu sesungguhnya, Engkau tahu yang mana terbaik utk ku. Jika ia adalah untuk ku, berikan lah pada ku, jika ia memudaratkan aku dan keluarga ku maka kau jauhkan lah pada ku”
Last but not least, always see Positive and Good things in everything. Insya Allah, we be a better person.
Saya sekadar berkongsi secebis pandangan dari sudut personal saya untuk perkongsian bersama.
Wallahua’lam